So today i thought it would be a great day to talk about japanese girls but not about only teen girls but all girls from young to old. So lets start with the teen girls:) So Japanese girls are alot different from american girl, they are alot shy and not as out going or talk active like american girls are. The whole social groups in japan are crazy becuase the boys and girls seem to be totally segregated, for example at lunch you never see boys and girls eat together at all, they are both at each ends of the class room not even talking to each other. Its like the boys and girls dont even like each other. And let me tell you its soo hard to even tell who is dating one or another becuase if they are dating they dont make it public at all. I liked this girl who always talked to me and was really nice and i had no idea she had a boyfriend becuase she always talked to me and was around me until she asked me if i had a girlfriend and i asked her and she said she had a boyfriend which i couldnt. I still dont know who her boyfriend is but i feel sorry for her becuase who ever her boyfriend may be he is doing a lazy job being a good boyfriend in my opinion. I think relationships is when you spend alot of time with the girl you like, but i cant judge them and say its wrong, just a different culture. Now back to my main topic, not all japanese girls are shy and quiet there are a few who are super loud and to crazy, and dress really bad with their short skirts and dont look like the type of people i would want to hangout with. Its crazy to me how the levels of personalitlies in japan are either supper shy or super annoying, i havent gotten to understand that yet....
Moving on to adult girls, like my two host moms i cant tell you how sorry i feel for them. In japan the wife does everything in the house, and when i say everything i mean it. She does all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, and pretty much a servant for everyone. My first host mom, would stay up till 11:00 at night scrubbing the floors and doing laundry then wake up at 4 every morning to finish laundry and this was everyday. I couldnt imagine how tired she must of been everyday. She always made coffee to help out but forcing your body to stay awake is never a good thing. And i offered numerous times to help but she insisted that i dont help, which made me alittle mad.... And what was worst was the host dad would come home and watch tv to like he did nothing to help her out with anything... And most all japanese houses are like this. When i have a family of my own i am going to make sure i help out with my house becuase not fair for the women to do everything while the men do nothing. Now i could understand if she was a stay house mom but she had a job to which means she is going threw everyday non stop working home and at her job. Just way to much!!! In america all the kids including me have chores we have to do to keep the house clean becuase both our parents work busy jobs and they are always tired so we could atleast help out the best we can and i think that is how it should be. The kids should do work for the house they live in and help out the family. Now i am not saying that my first host dad was really bad, he helped me and explained japanese to me and was very nice, but i just wished he would help out in the house some how or even alittle like the dishes or something. I remember this one time when he was finished with his dinner he stood up and took his plate to the sink and my host mom was soo happy becuase he did and not her, which i thought was alittle sad becuase i did that everyday to help out alittle. O well if she is happy than thats all i want.
Anyways now the final girls the old people. Now old people there are two types of old people there are 1 the nice and cool grandma's and then theres 2 the old fashion grandma's. Now i have had both and frankly i like the new cool grandma's thats my host family now. My last family me and my grandma didnt have the best relationship, becuase as i said earlier shes old fashion which i would know nothing about becuase i am in the new generation and only know the new things and ways. But my grandma didnt really accept that well, she didnt like me so much to the point she wouldnt even eat dinner with me. She would take her bath and purposely wait until i finished and went to my room till she came out and ate her dinner, which didnt bug me to much because i didnt want to make things worse by trying to talk to her and make her more mad so i kinda stayed out of her way. And what i dont like really about old ladies is that most of them know very old japanese which again is really impossible for me to know so i literally cant talk to any of them, but i try. Especially with the onces i have now they are really sweet and understand that i am a exchange student and my japanese isnt perfect so they talk to me and tell me about their days and are really friendly. So those are kinda my point of view about girls in america im sure i have left out alot or anything i forgot to type, but i hope you enjoyed it and please ask any questions if you have any:)
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